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Importance Of Dating

Main Importance And Significance Of Dating

Not many people realize the actual importance of dating. Of course, we all know that we date in order to get love and fill our lives with romance. That though is just the beginning, not the end. The first objective of dating is find the love of our life. The last objective of dating is to make that love work in a long-term relationship. But there is a lot of stuff that goes in between these two points.

Dating is perhaps the most hyped-up thing in today’s world and rightly so. If you don’t date, you stand no chance to find love or even experience the beautiful feeling of romance. You won’t even find your soul mate unless you date. You won’t be able to select your life mate. So dating is essential unless you want to lead a life of a saint in the Himalayas.

Dating gives you the best shot at knowing the other person in an intimate setting. It gives you a chance at experiencing what an actual relationship with the other person would be without giving your commitment for a lifetime. You can also learn everything that you may want to before committing or even considering that person for a relationship. So it lets you know all the ins and outs of the other person. This takes the guesswork out of the picture, leaving very little space for any surprises later on.

Think of dating as car buying. When you are in the market to buy a new car, you go test drive a few and then take a well-informed decision after learning the pros and cons of few different cars. To come to think of it, dating is no different can buying a car. Just like a test drive, dating too gives you a chance to test being with the person so that you can make an intelligent decision. The comparison of dating with test-driving may sound a little harsh but the concept is almost the same.

Whenever we are out buying some big ticket item, we all do some comparison shopping. The most expensive the item, the more meticulous we are before we are before we write a check or swipe our credit card. Selecting our soul mate is perhaps one of the most important decision in anyone’s life. The stake are the highest level. Choosing the right mate can make a world of difference between being happily ever after and being miserable thereafter. So when the stakes are so high, it’s prudent to indulge in the dating exercise in order to find the right person with whom you can spend your life in peace and harmony.

When we date we also get more romance-ready and romance-friendly. This may be a big advantage for people who have not been so fortunate to experience much romance in their life. The dating phase helps in bringing two people together and taste the feeling of romance and being together in the romantic sense. It can also be a big factor in knowing if two people share chemistry and connection, both emotionally and intimately. All this should be done without getting too deeply involved with each other unless you have made the decision to enter into a relationship.

So dating is not only important, it is almost inevitable if you want love, romance, and eventually want to enter a meaningful relationship. In some cultures the entire dating phase is replaced by one short meeting and that is the biggest mistake but that is a whole new topic in itself which is discussed in detail in another posting. For most part, we can’t bypass dating, in fact, we should not do that.

Dating is the front door to a palace of happiness. You got to put your foot inside and then you can see which way to go. Just don’t lose your way and get lost. Stay focused and keep yourself aware of why you are there. No words can explain the importance of dating. You just have to take our word for it.
Date Posted/Updated On: 10/24/2016
Author: ispace1

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