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Flirting And Equal Opportunity

Flirting And The Role Of Giving Equal Opportunity For Most Effective Results

You may be an excellent orator and someone who is known to win other people’s hearts just by showcasing your eloquence. But, this is not one of your leadership workshops. You may be deeply fascinated and passionate about what you have to say. But, this is not the time to keep blabbing about your ideas or opinions about yourself. Doing so may make you appear to be arrogant and self-obsessed.

By the same token, there are people who are extremely patient in hearing what the other person is saying. They are so patient that the entire conversation goes by without them saying a single word. Their silence rips apart the other person. They take no initiative in making the conversation going.

Both of the above cases are extremes. Talking too much or too little, both has adverse consequences. The golden rule is to exchange almost equal number of words. Flirting after all is about reciprocity and sharing or exchanging information and ideas where both people comes across as effectively playing the role of a talker as well as a listener. This happens when you give some and take some.

There should be a natural fluidity in the conversation. Neither party should make an effort to keep the conversation going. There shouldn’t be too many pauses or interruptions for too long. There should be natural turn taking when one person gives the other person a chance to respond by giving signals by facial expressions and drops in volume levels. All these things should happen almost effortlessly and seamlessly. The more effective you become in this two-way communication skill, the more successful you will be with flirting.
Date Posted/Updated On: 10/23/2016
Author: ispace1

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