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Flirting And Maintaining Appropriate Distance With Target


While flirting, it is important to maintain an appropriate distance with the other person. The distance that you keep with the other person will tell the other person about your character. At the same time, be aware of the distance that the other person is keeping with you as it will tell you what they feel for you. In both cases, distance speaks louder than words.

As a thumb rule, maintain a distance of four to six feet when you first see your target. It is commonly accepted that a person’s private space comprises of the roughly four feet radius around them. Try to stay away from this private circle at the initial stage. After you make a mutual interest, try to get inside their private circle. Still don’t get too close yet. A distance of two to four feet comprises of a person’s personal space. So still stay away from the personal circle. Then once you establish a more personal mental connection, try to move a little bit more closer. A distance of one to two feet is mostly reserved for close friends and family. So get closer but still remain at least a foot away from them. Then comes the final intimate circle that is less than a foot from them. This is usually reserved for intimate lovers. If you feel you have reached that level, by all means get as close as you can get. Keep in mind that the movement of getting closer that is described here can happen over several meetings and not just the first one.

The important thing is to be mindful of other people’s boundaries and respect them. Don’t get too close too soon that the other person start feeling uncomfortable. These distances also wary depending on if you are standing face to face or side by side. It would also make a difference if you are sitting in a bar or a pub.

Just get as close as you can and as rapidly as you can without making the other person uncomfortable. You can easily see the level of comfort or discomfort on the other person’s face and body language. Progress towards or away from the other person as the case may be. Always be respectful of the other person and never ever throw yourself on the other person if that is not what they want you to do. So just take things very slow and don’t intrude other person’s space.
Date Posted/Updated On: 12/03/2016
Author: ispace1


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