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Fear Of Heart Break Or Break Up

Fear Of Heart Break Or Break Up And Getting Dumped By Someone

A romantic relationship is one of the best things in the world. The stronger your love and bond is, the more fearful you become of losing such an extra-ordinary thing in life. These fears of break-up becomes even worse when there are signs from the other side that something like that may happen. It is important to know if these are just your own fears or there are some legitimate reasons that are making you feel that way. If these are just you own fears, then let them go away before they screw things up. If there are actual reasons, it’s best to talk them out with your partner.

Most fear of break-up comes from your own insecurities. These insecurities come from you lack of confidence in yourself. The lack of confidence can be due to many reasons. It could be that you feel that you don’t look good enough to hold interest of the opposite sex. You think that everyone else around you is much better looking and has a higher sex appeal. It also could be that you feel you are not smart enough to be in a relationship. You think you don’t have a very bright career and you may not come across as a desirable mate. So don’t have any inferiority complex and have confidence in yourself.

Some people fear a break-up in their relationship because they are totally dependent on their partner. They depend fully on their partner emotionally as well as financially. A potential break-up may be worse than a tsunami for them. The only way to get over this is by reducing the dependence on their partner and become independent so that they can still stand should things were to go wrong.

The fear of break-up may root back to a past relationship experience. If your heart has been broken many times, it is natural to feel skeptical about getting into another similar situation. What you are forgetting is that your past experiences are not indicative of your current or future experience. Just because your ex broke your heart into a million pieces does not mean that the same will happen again. In all honesty, it may happen again but it may not. There is always a risk involved in love but it’s worth taking that risk. So if you are in a relationship, don’t let your past ruin your present. If you are not in a relationship, don’t let your past become a barrier to you current or future happiness.

Many people are so fearful of a break-up that they don’t even get into a relationship. They fear of being badly hurt. They think they won’t be able to handle a break-up. All these fears the ridiculous. You can’t know what’s on other side unless you walk to the other side. It may be totally beautiful and breath-taking or it may also be totally ugly. The important thing is to cross that line and see what’s out there. It’s not an irreversible thing. You can always come back if you don’t find it desirable.

These days romantic relationship are full of break-ups from both sides. People don’t want to settle or compromise until they get what they truly want, even if that takes a million relationships and break-ups. These days that’s just how it works. Those days are gone when people used to spend their entire lifetime with their first love. Things have changed and we have come a long way. So don’t let the fear of break-up come in your way of getting into what could be the most wonderful relationship of your life.

There is really no good reason to fear a break-up. Getting dumped is not the end of the world. In fact, it may just the beginning of a much better world. Realize that everything happens for a reason. That reason is usually a good one. Even if it’s not, we have no control over it. So why fear something that we have no control over. Just walk the walk without fear and hopefully things will work out. If they don’t, there may be something better waiting for you.

Whatever the case may be, fear of break is a negative omen. It is a destructive sign. It can have a ripple effect and cripple your relationship. Don’t let this happen to you. Don’t add fuel to the fire. So discard all your fears. The worse that can happen is a break-up. That’s not a life and death situation. When we fear something too much, it happens even if it was not supposed to. Our belief and imagination has a way to seep into reality. So think positively, and positive things will happen in your life. Think objectively because fear destroys objectivity and gives rise to anxiety. Fear of a break-up is just a fear and it’s best to overcome it before it overcomes you.
Date Posted/Updated On: 10/22/2016
Author: ispace1

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