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Moving On After Heart Break Or Break Up

Moving On Or Taking Off After A Heart Break Or Break Up

It can be extremely difficult to move on with your life after facing a massive break up. Life seems to come to an end. Nothing seems to be good anymore. You have lost your faith in the opposite sex. You feel hopeless and depressed. All this is natural to feel after a heartbreak. That said, it is paramount to pick up the broken pieces of your heart and move on with your life. Never make the mistake of taking a long break from love and romance. You need it to feel good and enjoy your life. Even a car gets rusty and its battery dies when you don’t drive it for a while. Now that doesn’t mean you rush into another relationship. Give yourself some time to get things in perspective so that you are ready to finally move on. Following are some suggestions that may help you in moving on with your life after a break up.

Get rid of all the things that remind you of them. Clean your inbox and delete your text history. Remove them from your social media accounts. Hide or throw away the gifts they gave. Burn all their pictures or note that remind you of them. All this may seem hard at first, but you really need to cut them off from your life completely. Behave as if they never even existed. There is an old saying, out of sight, out of mind. Try not to come across them if you live close-by. Make all efforts to kill everything that reminds you of them.

Stop thinking about them. Kick them out of your mind and heart. Distract and divert your mind away from them and into other activities. It may be difficult in the beginning but each time it will be become slightly easier. Then at some point, you will stop thinking about them. This can be a slow process but a proven one. Never get into listening to sad sosngs or songs that reminds you of your ex.

Focus on your wellbeing and your future. Eat healthy and nutritious food. When you are emotionally drained out, you will need an extra boost of energy. So have health shakes and power bars. Just eat healthy and take care of your body. This can of course have far-reaching benefits.

Never make the mistake of turning to alcohol or drugs to ease your pain. Both of these are known to make thing worse. In fact, they can put in a much bigger problem than you may be in. They may ease pain temporarily. But they have many dire consequences in the long run. So stay as far away as you can from liquor or even recreational drugs.

Instead of sulking in a corner, work-out and go to the gym. Exercise and physical fitness will help you lift your mind and body with good hormones. All the sweat and tiredness will help you burn your sadness and frustration. So indulge in physical fitness and even play a sport if you can. Go treat yourself in a spa or take a swim. All these things will help in preventing you from getting into depression.

Now you just have you to take care of yourself. You also have a lot of extra free time for yourself. This may be a perfect time to indulge in a hobby that you have been long postponing. Go join an art class of learn salsa. Do whatever interests you and makes you happy. You should even go on a cruise or a vacation if it will make you feel better. These things will make your realize how good life is and what all you may be missing out on.

Moving on after a breakup seems to be an impossible task. But once you apply the advice given above, you will feel a slow movement away from your ex and towards the life that has been waiting for you with open arms. All you have to do is open your eyes and embrace it with open arms. Life is a beautiful blessing that no one should let go to waste. Every moment is important. Think of it as a loss for your ex and a gain for you. Loss for them because they let go off such a wonderful person like you. Gain for yourself because you were stuck with someone who didn’t even deserve you in the first place. Slowly you will realize moving on was the best decision you made and it was like a blessing in disguise.
Date Posted/Updated On: 10/21/2016
Author: ispace1

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