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Taking A Break After Break Up

Taking A Break From Romance After Breaking Up A Romantic Relationship

Romantic relationship are often very emotionally demanding. Breaking up the same can be even more emotionally taxing. Going through a break up can be an awfully overwhelming task for most people. It is best to give yourself a break from the love and romance scene after going through a massive break up.

It is important to realize the importance of first closing the current chapter in your life before beginning a new one. Else, you may end up taking pieces from your old relationship to the new one. This can create a lot of confusion not only for yourself but also for your new partner. Not to mention, you may end up in a bigger emotional mess than ever before.

Take some time off from the love and romance. This will give you time to put your thoughts together. You really need some alone time after ending a relationship. This time is crucial in getting yourself back to being normal. You may feel alone during this and may need a companion but you can always turn to friends and family for emotional support.

This time should be used to analyze and dissect your previous relationship. Think about what went wrong and what was your part in the things that lead to the break up. Make a list of those things and promise yourself not to repeat the same mistakes in your next relationship. You need to learn from your past in order to make your future better.

We all blame the other person after a break up. This is a very natural thought but is highly irrational. You can’t clap with just one hand. There are always mistakes made from both sides. Own your mistakes and learn from them. Stop blaming the other person for everything because the easiest escape is to blame someone else. That doesn’t mean that you start pitying yourself either. Just be fair in splitting the blame cards.

This is the time when you are most vulnerable. It will be very easy for others to take advantage of you and play with your emotions. When we are hurting, out heart gets dilated. It becomes easier for others to enter our heart. All this may lead to a rebound. Avoid making these mistakes and give yourself time before you get back in search of someone wonderful.

Using this time to do things that you have always want to do but could never do before. Open your bucket list and strike a few line items from it. You are a free bird and not answerable to anyone. Use your freedom to enjoy your singlehood. Also socialize and meet up with friends and family. Just celebrate your life even if you can’t see any reason to celebrate.

Hence, it is always advisable to take a break after a break up. Don’t rush things by exiting a relationship and entering a new one too soon. Keep a fair gap between the exit and the entry. Use this gap to be once again get ready to start a new meaningful relationship without any residual feelings. The old one ended because it was just not destined to last. Things were just not meant to be. The day you can get these thoughts and adopt this attitude, you will be ready to try your luck once again in love and romance.
Date Posted/Updated On: 10/27/2016
Author: ispace1

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