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Finding Love Again

Finding Or Discovering Love Again Can Be A Daunting And Formidable Task

Finding love again after a bad experience can be a painful task, especially if you are not young anymore. While we are still relatively young, our feelings are quite fluid and love seems like an achievable endeavor. It is fairly easy to find a new love when we are in college or part of the young work force. But as we grow older, those possibilities begin to diminish.

Love doesn’t seem to be so easy anymore because most people are either taken or don’t just meet our criterion. We also become more careful because we have been there done that. It’s more like once bitten twice shy. Our hearts become more fragile and we fear of another heartbreak.

We also become more used to our own ways of living our life and we become less adjusting. Our heart and mind build high walls around them because we want to protect our feelings from being shattered again. It is natural to be skeptical about putting our feet in the same waters that once burnt us. That strong love that once had for years or even decades suddenly got eroded. We develop an automatic rejection of feeling of love and begin to doubt every move or response that we make. We somehow decide and promise ourselves not to love again. The best thing is to give it some time as time is the best healer. You will soon be ready to love again.

To learn to love again requires lots of courage and positive attitude. The past teaches us lots of lessons. Just trying hard to forget the past and moving on is a step in the right direction. Of course, it takes a second to fall in love but may be a lifetime to forget that love.

We become more cautious after a bad experience. Some people in fact go through a series of bad experiences. We become reluctant and afraid of repeating history. That said, finding love again is not impossible. Finding love again is not as hard as it sounds. It can be found and one should not give up. The only difference is that now you an experienced player who knows what exactly you want and that is exactly what makes it harder to find love again. We become more picky than we once were when we were in college.

Stop worrying about finding love, it will come on its own when the time is right. Learning to love again is a difficult task especially when one is betrayed or when one is loaded with lots of memories of their past. Until love does come back in your life, just enjoy being single. Love comes to those who have hopes even though they have been hurt by someone in the past.

The first step is to not to stop believing in love and be ready to explore the new territory. Also become more flexible in your lifestyle. Not to mention, don’t let your past relationship stay in your heart as a baggage, instead learn from the mistakes. Cherish those old memories instead of despising them. In other words, have a positive attitude about love. Don’t fear love because you can’t get anything that you are afraid of in life. Be welcoming to love in your life once again.

Go see a counsellor if you think that may help or talk to a friend or a family member that you can confide in. Go out and meet other single people and at least see what’s out there. Socialize more and go to family get together. You can also join some extracurricular activities or join some evening art classes to get an opportunity to meet a potential. It may be time for you to enjoy your hobby with the potential of meeting someone special. If you keep doing that, you surely will meet someone that you click with.
Date Posted/Updated On: 10/21/2016
Author: ispace1

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