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Vulnerable Love

Vulnerability Or Susceptibility In Love Leads To Openness And Codependence


Vulnerability is one of the most important element of any healthy relationship. It is good to be independent and sovereign because those qualities help us handle the bad times. But being too self-sufficient and self-reliant can prevent us from reaching the true potential of a romantic relationship. For an intimate and close relationship, some level of dependence on each other is very crucial because that gives rise to the feeling of being needed in a relationship. If you totally independent then your partner may think why you even need their support.

Being vulnerable makes us become more open and expose our deep down emotions. So vulnerability is definitely risky and uncertain. But falling in love itself is risky. Love is the most risky emotion as it’s a gamble. You can lose the love that you have at any moment. There are no guarantees in love. So if you are risking to fall in love, then it’s better to take the full plunge by being vulnerable to your partner.

Love is pain and pleasure both. Love is easily vulnerable to misunderstandings and arguments. When we love we are surrounded by vulnerable and doubtful thoughts. It is advisable to trust each other and not allow any negative thoughts to enter a relationship. Love comes with hurt and disappointments. Such hurt should be dismissed and not taken seriously. Don't believe in everything you think.

Vulnerable love brings fear of losing the person or separation. When one is overly sensitive to emotions they become vulnerable to heartaches. Being vulnerable is both a blessing and a curse as it transforms a person to be more strong to bear the pain. When one falls in love, they have to accept chances of vulnerable moments too along with it. Vulnerability usually brings two people closer after the initial revelations. Love is susceptible to corrupt influences. It is the duty of both partners not to allow any such negative influences in a relationship.

When you start depending on someone, things become painful when that support system is withdrawn. It may be hard to be vulnerable. It becomes even harder if you have had a few bad relationships. But you are forgetting that the main reason you are failing in relationships is because you never allowed yourself to be fully open towards your partner.

By not being vulnerable in your relationship, you are not wholeheartedly in the relationship. Your fears of exposing your emotions is not letting you fully submerge in your relationship. You may very well be depriving yourself from true feeling of love. Feelings that comes out when you bring out the inner most part of your heart.

The reason we hesitate in being vulnerable is because of our own fears and lack of confidence. We feel that our innermost part of our personality may not be acceptable to our partner. We may also think that keeping a safe distance will safeguard us from getting hurt. We may also be shameful of our inner thoughts. We are sometimes scared that our partner may walk out if we expose the dark side of your inner self. All these reasons are credible but baseless.

If you truly want a long lasting relationship then you need to be yourself. It will be almost be impossible for you to be pretend to be someone else for a long period of time and even if you do that, you will be suffocating yourself. Most fears of vulnerability in a relations are nothing more than our own fears. Just expose your emotions and if your partner truly loves you, they will embrace you with all the good and bad things that are stored deep inside your heart.
Date Posted/Updated On: 12/11/2016
Author: ispace1


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