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Communication In Relationship

Communication And Speaking In Relationship


A romantic relationship between two individual should be based upon open and fluid communication. There should be no vacuum or isolation at any time. It is communication that binds two people together. It is a skill that can be learned and improved upon if needed and is not something that can’t be mastered.

Most people confuse communication in a relationship with talking. Just talking daily to your partner about usual routine doesn’t contribute towards communication. Communication is talking about the important stuff, the things that makes a difference. The most common phrase is that communication is the key to a relationship. It either makes or breaks a relationship. Without communication, there is no relationship.

When having a communication in your relationship, the most important this is to shut up and listen. Let the other person say what they have to say before you put forth your point of view. As hard as it may be, leave aside your opinion and listen by being in the other person’s shoes. Then see if they have a valid point before you introduce your argument. You will surprised how effective this suggestion can be in having meaningful communication with your partner.

It is worth nothing that communication is about always being honest and open about your thoughts with your partner. Pour your heart out if you have to. Be completely transparent about how you feel and what you have to say. Never pretend that everything is fine when it’s not. Open your heart and say everything that’s inside you. Holding even little things back can lead to a bigger disaster down the road.

Very few people know and understand that communication in a relationship is not just about what you are saying. It is also about how you are saying. Make your partner hear what you and also what you don’t say. This is where the importance of body language comes in. Also the pitch of your tone and the look on your face makes a huge difference. Eyes have the ability to communicate better than words. All these non-verbal signals are extremely important while communicating. Always maintain a friendliness or at least a neutrality while talking.

Always stay focused on the topic at large while have a communication with your partner in your relationship. If you mix ten other things that may be upsetting you, it would get impossible to sort anything out. Most of make the mistake of bringing other past issues into our current arguments. Never do that, just resolve the current issue and set aside another time for other issues. It is easier to deal with one issues at a time than ten issues at the same time.

Never get carried away with your emotions when talking about any important issue. Don’t make you arguments a winning game either. Sometimes it’s important to accept your mistake even when it’s not just to cool things down. Don’t take pleasure in winning argument, instead try to share the credit with your partner. Also, take things lightly and splash some humor if possible.

Communication in a relationship is an art that everyone must master. Give your partner your undivided attention. Never give them the silent treatment. Learn to agree to disagree sometimes. Know that no one is right and no one is wrong, it’s all about perspective. Just make sure you open all sources of communication, both face to face and other electronic mode of communication. All it takes is one person to take the initiative and other will have to follow.
Date Posted/Updated On: 12/06/2016
Author: ispace1


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