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Conversation In Relationship

Conversation And Talking In Relationship

A romantic relationship between two very different individuals becomes a lot more personal where there are lots of conversations in it. We all know that conversing in a relationship is the key to its success and longevity. Sometimes we lose that key. The reality is that it’s sitting right there in front of you and all you have to turn is around to open the doors of meaningful conversations.

It is important to note that conversing in a relationship is not just about expressing yourself to your partner. It is also about hearing what your partner has to say. It is a two way street. Just saying what you have to say and not listening to the other person is always unhealthy. In fact, make it a point to first hear and then say.

Some people don’t fully realize the importance of having meaningful conversations in their relationship. They somehow assume and expect that their partner can read their minds. You may be making things obvious without spelling the words. But it is important to put your thoughts across in words, not just mere gestures. Chances are that your partner doesn’t know what’s in your mind. So it becomes taking the guess work out and saying things in clear and direct words.

Always be honest and truthful while having a conversation in your relationship. Never say things that you don’t mean just to please your partner. No matter how harsh the truth may be, don’t be afraid to say it. Even if you hide things, it will eventually come out at a later stage. It’s best to resolve such unpleasant things by talking before they turn into a much bigger issue.

Most people are afraid to reveal the ugly part while having a conversation in their relationship; they get afraid of backlash.
A good idea would be to either sugar coat a bad idea of stuff it inside some other conversations. Having a bitter cough syrup by itself may taste awful, but it would become much easier to have it with a candy. So be smart in how and when you talk about anything that is not very desirable.

Some people make the mistake of using electronic media to converse about knotty topics. It may be easy to say difficult things through texts but it is virtually impossible to transpire the correct feelings regardless of the emoticons. It may actually give birth to miscommunication. Sometimes it becomes important to see the body language and hear the tone of their voice to actually understand the matter. So leave important things for face to face talks.

Always indulge in active listening by lending them both your ears, not just one. Give them your nods when needed. Another good suggestion that may help you in conversing your partner is using we instead of I. It will make your partner feel that you both are in it together and it will also promote a feeling of team effort and shared responsibility.

Conversation in a relationship should occur naturally and effortlessly. Conversing comprises of what you say with words and what you say with your actions. Sometimes actions speak louder than words. Words and actions should both be in sync. Merely saying things with words when your actions don’t match is even worse. It becomes important to revalidate your words with your actions. Remember that everything speaks in a relationship, your words your actions, your body language, your eyes, and even your silence.
Date Posted/Updated On: 10/21/2016
Author: ispace1

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