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Equal And Fair Relationships Are Evenhanded And Impartial

A solid relationship is the one is based upon equality and fairness, not power and control. Some people unknowingly connect equality in a relationship with a perfect fifty-fifty split. They think everything should be exactly equal for both partners. What they forget to realize that this is a relationship we are talking about between a man and a woman, both of whom are completely different species. Both men and women are highly complicated individuals, and the relationship between them is even more complicated. So all this is far from being a perfect science.

There should be equality in all healthy relationships but not it doesn’t have to be exactly equal. We are talking about people and relationships here, not formulating the composition of the next revolutionary drug to treat relationship problems. Moreover, equality means different to different people in different relationships. It may be important to define equality in your relationship and how you can form a balance.

Inequality and imbalance in relationship is one of the main source of problems in relationships. The best way to resolve equality is by adopting an age-old phrase. It is a common saying that we should treat others in the same way as we want them to treat us. Both partners need to treat each other just the way want to be treated by the other. If you can do this, there will be automatic equality in your relationship.

When you think of equality is your relationship, keep in mind that both men and women are unequal individuals. So expecting equality between two unequal object is counterintuitive and irrational. The important thing is that it should be a give and take relationship, where each partner gives something and there is some sort of balance between what each one gives. It all comes to shared duties and responsibilities.

It is important to realize as well as accept that both men and women are capable of doing different things. There are things that only a man can do, or should do. Likewise, there are things that only a woman can do, or should do. For instance, only a woman can give birth to a child and that’s not something a man is even capable of doing. But, yes, both should take equal part in taking care of that child.

Another example would be that only a man is more capable of safeguarding from burglars and intruders or hauling heavy baggage while traveling or moving heavy stuff around the house. A man is physically stronger gender and should take precedence when it comes to physical strength. In short, there are certain things that are more suitable to men and there are things that are more apt for women. It’s important to realize these differences and according create equality in a relationship.

There are many ways to have an overall equality in a relationship. An equal and balanced relationship calls for shared responsibilities. There should also be fairness in a relationship. Both partners should have open communication and be able to voice their opinion. All important decisions should be made jointly.

There should also be mutual respect for each other where both partners take care of each other’s needs. They also need to respect each other’s privacy and space. They should consider each other’s likes and dislikes. Unwavering support for each other is also very important. It is also crucial to address each other’s sexual needs so that it’s a closely knit intimate relationship. These are some of the things that would make a relationship equal and balanced.
Date Posted/Updated On: 10/24/2016
Author: ispace1

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