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Nagging In Relationship

Nagging Or Niggling In A Relationship Can Be Pesky And Vexatious


Any romantic relationship no matter how good it is has some elements of nagging in it. In fact, nagging is a part and parcel of being in a relationship. A very small cute type of nagging can make a relationship more romantic. However, continuous and extreme nagging can destroy a relationship into shreds.

The most horrible part of nagging in a romantic relationship is that it can building very slowly in very small pieces until it becomes an atom bomb that explodes one day. In most cases, the other partner keep dealing with nagging silently. One day of nagging can be tolerable. But nagging every day for years can take a big toll. One day all that nagging will come out in a big way when enough is enough. That’s when the real problem seeps in.

One of the best ways to save a relationship from nagging is stopping it before it’s too late. All those coaxing and pestering must be stopped before the other person loses their cool. One option is to stop nagging and accept the things the way they are. The other options is to have a matured conversation with your partner and explain your viewpoint and express what exactly you want.

The real reason some people nag can be directly related to their upbringing and their family background. They are most likely a spoilt brat or were extremely pampered by their parents. They are used to getting things before the words come out of their mouth. They are also not very sensitive about other people’s feelings. All of these things boils down to childishness and immaturity.

The first stage of a relationship is usually beautiful and if it’s not things would end much sooner. When the honeymoon is over and when the initial infatuation stage is over, then comes out the real thing. This is when nagging enters a relationship. It keeps growing with time as things seem more settled. It also increases as one feels more comfortable to say and do whatever they want without much hesitation.

It is advisable to stop these nagging as soon as they start. If not, they have a way to make a small home in your relationship. Nagging slowly becomes a habit and a part of life. This can be extremely dangerous. It is easy to kill one small roach that comes into your kitchen through the backyard. Image what you would do when these roaches multiplies into millions. So kill nagging before it infects your relationship.

It is important that most of the nagging happens unconsciously and without realizing it. This is because of the personality of the person who is nagging. That’s just the way they are. They like to nag and complain all the time. This can be very unhealthy in a relationship. It may be hard to change this habit but not impossible.

Nagging in a relationship creates a drift between two partners. They both keep drifting apart as the nagging becomes more prominent. It comes in between them in every way and it stagnates growth in their relationship. Don’t let this happen to you. Engage in a conversation and find out what actually is it that makes one keep nagging. If those reason are valid, try your best to take corrective action. If those reasons are not valid, try to explain things to your partner.
Date Posted/Updated On: 12/10/2016
Author: ispace1


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