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Truthfulness In Relationship

Truthfulness And Frankness In Relationship


A romantic relationship is one of the purest way to affirm love for one another. For that both partners need to have truthfulness in their relationship. We all know the important of being truthful, yet we all lie at some point or the other. As per research, people lie approximately a tenth to a third of the time in a relationship. There is a constant lying and deceit from both sides. This is a cause for big concern as it can totally cripple a relationship and shred it into pieces.

Most people forget to realize that trust is the foundation of love on which a relationship stands. Today’s relationships are filled with all sorts of lies ranging from small things to big time betrayals. It becomes a challenge to have truthfulness in a relationship because all humans are prone to lying to get their way through. Very few of us understand the importance of speaking the truth. Speaking the truth creates a positive environment in a relationship.

The first thing to do to be truthful in a relationship is to understand yourself and what you want. Most people do things or act in certain ways because that is what is expected from them or that is what they have seen around them in the society in which they live. They are greatly influenced by factors surrounding them. One should hear their inner voice and do what they truly want. If you are true to yourself and know what you want, it will become easier to be truthful to people around you.

End doing things or saying things to please your partner. Doing so would amount to being dishonest not only to your partner but to yourself too. One can only be truthful to others once they are honest with their inner soul. Truths and facts have their own leg and so does lies and deceits. Whatever that is inside you eventually comes out. So fix your inner self as a first step towards bringing integrity in your relationship.

It is very important to do a reality and fact check of your relationship. How you feel, what you do, what you say, and how you act should be all in sync with each other. Even a slight disruption can give birth to living a superficial life. This is why couples drift apart after a while.

Feelings change over a period of time but actions or words usually don’t. There is a quick fix for this problem. Just do what you say. And to say what you think.

Stop saying words and pretending to be someone you are not anymore. It is natural for us to change with time but it becomes a problem when we start evolving as an individual person instead of evolving as a single unit in a relationship. Independent evolvement leads to walking different paths. Let your relationship grow by being truthful confiding in them.

Most people resort to lying in their relationship because they are either ashamed of something or they are afraid of getting abandoned. Both of these reasons are legitimate but they question the very fabric of being in a relationship. People should want to be in a relationship so that they can they can be accepted just the way they are, not for who they are not. If being truthful means embarrassment or abandonment, so be it. It’s better to be honest than to lead a camouflaged life.
Date Posted/Updated On: 12/09/2016
Author: ispace1


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