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Loveless Relationship

Love Less And Romance Less Relationship


A long term romantic relationship comes with a lot of feelings and emotions of love. When those feelings and emotions of love begin to dissipate, the meaning of the relationship itself seizes to exist. It transforms from a love and romantic relationship to a love-less and romance-less relationship. This can be a serious situation, one that requires some thought and action. Many people stay in a loveless relationship without even realizing it. So it is very important to be aware of the signs of a loveless relationship.

One of the biggest reason why people stay in a loveless relationship is that they are in denial. They refuse to accept the fact that there is no love between them. This is especially true after living together for many years. They refuse to listen to their inner voice. It is always good to do a fact-check to see what the love meter says.

The best indicator that shows that one is in a loveless relationship is that the distance between them keeps increasing. There is hardly any intimacy between the couple. The weekly sex becomes a monthly deal and finally it only happens on birthday and anniversaries. After a while the sex almost stops and gets replaced by a peck on the cheek or just a quick hug. There is hardly any intimacy in the relationship. All this happens so slowly that it’s hard to realize it. A romantic relationship loses its meaning when there is no physical contact between the couple.

Most loveless relationships are a result of constant criticism and condemnation. When there is a lot of sarcasm where one partner calls names and ridicules the other in public over and over again, it can make the love dissipate. Always putting the other person down and telling them they are worth nothing results in diluting the love. Making the other person feel inferior and good-for-nothing can have devastating effects.

Another sign of a loveless relationship is that are no more fights, arguments, or conflicts. It is important to note that even fights have love in it. In fact, it has a lot of love in it. There is hardly any complains or demands. The only voice that comes out is from the television. There is nothing in a relationship where there is so little communications. It only means that two people are drifting apart slowly.

Sometimes the main cause of a loveless relationship is an external source. It is possible that the focus shifts entirely to rising in career or there is just too much stress at work. There could be others who take most of the time and attention such as kids. There could be other unforeseen circumstances such as the death of a very close family member. All these things can make a person lose the charm for love in their life.

The most important reason a loveless relationship is when one or both partners fall out of love. It is not uncommon to lose the love that you once felt. This mostly happens because many people mistake temporary infatuation for love. This situation is very common these days. People fall in love very fast, only to realize that it wasn’t a long prevailing strong love. If that is the case, it is best to come out of it as soon as possible.

There can be only two ways to deal with a loveless relationship, assuming that the couple has already tried every means to rectify the situation and nothing worked. The easiest way is to end it. There is no point in staying in a love and romantic relationship without any love or romance in it. This is the best solution, especially if both partners are in a younger age and can potentially find the love that they desire. The other option is to accept the way things are and continue living your life. It could be that both partners are just together for convenience and they rather be together than alone. This is more common when both partners are older.
Date Posted/Updated On: 12/06/2016
Author: ispace1


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